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Anxiety spreads in 4 spaces

The space that is inside you.

Assumptions, expectations, pressures and triggers.
The space between you and the other.

Catching each other’s anxiety and escalating in reactivity.
The space inside the other.

What are they thinking, what do they think of me, why did they do that?
The space between others.

When you enter a room and step on a mood, or someone changes the mood.

Watch The Four Spaces Video

Tools For The Workplace and Home Place.

Notice, name and diffuse reactivity, increase connection and break stuck patterns.

First practice on yourself and then help others do the same.

My clients experience profound breakthroughs.

The most common response, ‘I wish I had these tools years ago!’

Free and paid resources including: our brand new journal, Life Giving List template, 31 Universal Sources PDF etc. We also offer videos for workplace training and more here.

Our self paced learning community to get you unstuck, overcome recurring patterns and triggers. Modules, self assessments, master classes, optional discussion and zoom groups here.

Book and Podcast image — Book and Podcast

The book gives comprehensive tools to notice, name and move through anxiety for you and your people. The podcast covers these tools and also hosts interviews with a variety of thinkers and authors.

What the kids are saying:

Christine Caine

A21, Equip and Empower, Preacher.
We are SO GRATEFUL for Steve. His work with our global team and me personally is phenomenal. Steve was officially declared ‘the best thing that happened in our organization in 2021.’ We could never thank him enough.
Rich Villodas

Pastor. Author: The Deeply Formed Life.
With profound depth of insight, humor, and empathy, Steve is a trusted guide for those looking to lead as a “calm presence” in the world. I highly recommend him for your personal life and organization.
Kevin Penry

Life Church Executive Team (2000 - 2017)
The time spent with Steve in his workshop is among the most informative and confirming I've spent in 20 years of Leadership. Steve equips us with tools to de- escalate and further manage that anxiety.
Glenn Packiam

Practical Theologian, Pastor, Author, Artist.
With disarming vulnerability and keen new insight, Steve invites us to look more deeply at the way we lead and the way our teams function. Through guided personal reflection and system analysis, Steve imparts wisdom that will help leaders last and teams thrive.
Annie Kardas

Chief Talent Officer, A21.
Steve arrested the attention of our 130+ Global Team members. His message crossed cultural and language barriers, and the positive feedback from our 19 office locations around the world was more than any other training we have had to date. Our team works in intense situations fighting human trafficking. Steve helped us identify our own anxiety and gave us priceless tools to more quickly identify and de-escalate it in others.
Kevin F.

MAJ, USA, Ret.
As an Army combat leader with experience in every combat theater and special operations since Desert Storm, I've not encountered better leadership training than this. This was both very humbling and very necessary.