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  • Chip and Jo Gaines

    Chip and Jo Gaines

    Magnolia, Fixer Upper

    Steve's time with our Magnolia staff was WONDERFUL. He helped put words to the anxiety that so many people feel both on a personal and professional level. Since his visit, we've been able to see the practical utilization of what Steve taught, which has been invaluable. We highly recommend!

  • Rich Villodas

    Rich Villodas

    Pastor. Author: The Deeply Formed Life.

    With profound depth of insight, humor, and empathy, Steve is a trusted guide for those looking to lead as a “calm presence” in the world. I highly recommend him for your personal life and organization.

  • Christine Caine

    Christine Caine

    Speaker, Author, Founder of A21

    We are SO GRATEFUL for Steve. His work with our global team and me personally, is phenomenal. Our team voted Steve 'the best thing that happened in our organization this year.' He's helped us so much.

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in you and your people.

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The 6 Results:

  1. Pinpoint who is generating anxiety and who is carrying it. Help everyone take responsibility.

  2. Break long standing habits and patterns that wear everyone down.

  3. Manage your own false needs, triggers and inner critic.

  4. Train your body to believe what your head believes and relax into God’s presence.

  5. Deep connection and presence in the most broken and intense situations.

  6. Cultivate life giving habits, increase your laughter and gratitude quotient, get your vocational joy back.

My speciality: four dynamics that infect all relationships:

  1. Reactivity. (The only form of anxiety that is contagious.)

  2. Assumptions. (The fastest way to disconnection.)

  3. Predictable Patterns. (You run into yourself again and again or you are weary of the same dance with that other person.)

  4. Attempted Solutions. (Your best effort to fix it keeps it stuck or makes it worse.)

    I help you notice, name, and diffuse them.

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“The differentiated self is a connected presence.

Curious. Non Reactive.

Keeping anxiety from spreading to others,

sifting assumptions and false expectations.

Connecting to self, others and God.

This is difficult and life giving work.”